让爱情更坚固的7个秘密

1. 爱自己

一个人如果连自己都不爱，很难相信他能爱别人。是否自尊和自信直接影响着一个人是否有健全的人格。如果你很爱你，虽然你身上有很多缺点、你经历过很多失败，但是你仍然对自己的生活感到信心十足，也只有当你有信心和充满安全感的时候，你才会爱对方，才能珍惜被对方爱。

2. 彼此珍爱

爱情甜蜜的基础当然是互相被对方吸引，彼此珍爱对方。只有拥有真爱的心，才会白头到老，才会认同对方的做事方式，有对生活的共同的梦。不要吝啬说出你爱情的感觉，大胆把“我爱你”说出口吧。

3. 多在一起

爱不爱一个人很简捷的衡量方式就是看你为他付出的时间和精力，如果你都抽不出时间和他（她）在一起，很难让对方相信你是爱他（她）的。但是相爱容易相处难，当我们热恋的时候，我们总是盼望着天天在一起，天天看到对方。但是当我们真的同居或者组成了家庭，生活变得忙碌起来，你还能保证你能抽出时间和他（她）手牵手散步吗？如果你能保证，你们的爱情就是坚不可摧的。

4. 沟通

开诚布公地说出你的真实想法，告诉他（她）你想要什么、你为什么那么做，只有坐在一起谈心才能让我们更了解彼此，不是吗？沟通不仅仅是你大胆说出你自己的想法，也包括你不带任何偏见的倾听他（她）的诉说。

5. 争论也很好

争论不是吵架，争论是我们生活中的一种常态，我们每个人都是独一无二的，当然我们都有自己的特殊性。不要畏惧争论会摧残你们的爱情，要知道在争论中我们不仅从对方那里学到了不同的知识也学会了一种重要的人生态度——屈服和妥协。

6. 爱抚

研究证明：如果没有爱抚，很多动物（也包括人），在童年就会夭折。爱抚会降低对方的血压，缓解脑压力，会让他（她）感到安慰和支持。

7. 变化不可怕

很多女生在热恋之后会很失落地感到：他对我不再像以前那样了，是不是他不爱我了。但是你要知道爱情并不是被时时宠爱、事事被宠爱，爱情需要让双方都有甜蜜的感觉，都感到被关爱着。他总是那样呵护你，他的心你有没有去呵护过，你总是动不动耍小脾气，他会不会感到累？我们都不喜欢一成不变的生活，爱情的模式也是同样。当爱情的模式发生变化的时候，虽然或许变来了惊喜也或许变来了痛苦，最重要的是我们要面对现实、学会思考，学会调整自己、去适应对方的变化。不管怎么变，爱他（她）的心不要变。

Significance of love

It is very easy to like someone, just like how you eat a Mcdonald's GCB. To like someone, you just have to express your feeling throughout a lot of ways, facebook? twitter? blog? or even a single sms? You can like how many person as you like at the same time. There is no any laws written that you cannot like more than a people.When you like someone, you like the feeling when you see him/her, you feel like you can sacrifice anything for that person.You don't need be responsible to like someone but not loving someone. Like then go for him/her, dislike then hiiii-byeee. Dumb enough? Why am I offending the man in the mirror! On the other hand,it is a handicap to love someone, just like you can't sleep through the night with tears. I believe all of you had suffer for the long night, no one can run away from this unless you're a insane but you're not. Love someone is you need to understand, comprehend, forgive, inclusive, grasp, comfort, console, communicate and others. Like comes easier than love because you just have to like that person without caring and worrying him. To love someone, you need to like or even love his or her defect. Indeed, love do hurts and it is a miracle to cure wounds too. Sounds sarcastic right, sometime I will ask the couple who are really sweet enough to get the diabetes about do they believe in eternal, the answer i got from them is surely a big yes. No doubt, love is a drug that make you fall and addicted to it. To get rid of it, there's only one way, that is I don't know. I heard that you've hurt by someone right? So do I.

If loving someone is too pain, Sorry, I love to feel the pain.



I wanted to tell you this so badly.

I opened my wallet and I find it empty, reached into my pocket and found a few coins, searched my heart and I found you!

Then I realized how rich I am.

Inception

Inception
Movie of the summer! Dom Cobb is a skilled thief, the absolute best in the dangerous art of extraction, stealing valuable secrets from deep within the subconscious during the dream state, when the mind is at its most vulnerable. Cobb's rare ability has made him a coveted player in this treacherous new world of corporate espionage, but it has also made him an international fugitive and cost him everything he has ever loved. Now Cobb is being offered a chance at redemption. One last job could give him his life back but only if he can accomplish the impossible-inception. Instead of the perfect heist, Cobb and his team of specialists have to pull off the reverse: their task is not to steal an idea but to plant one. If they succeed, it could be the perfect crime. But no amount of careful planning or expertise can prepare the team for the dangerous enemy that seems to predict their every move. An enemy that only Cobb could have seen coming.

Grab your popcorn and watch it! :D
P/s : Wegee boy and girl fainted after watching it




I'm moody when I got sore throat. T_T

Sore throat KILLS!

谢谢你的美好 ♥

因为我们知道 这天终究会来到
所以不计较 只要你心可以过得更好
当初爱的是你 当我哭时也是你
在我身边 让我尝到有被爱的感觉

我们的全部 所有的全部 只要再一步
就能够解脱 就能够拥有 得到自由

你把你眼泪擦干
你把你脚停下来

谢谢你的美好 ♥

Je te vois

父亲节 , 付清节

相信每个人都在忙着讨论要给爸爸买个什么样特别的礼物吧 对我来说父亲节不过是普通的一天


我对她说了谎话
我...
我...







对不起
我不配

累 还是 泪

今天不知道发生了什么事 好累好累 应该是昨天去跑山了又去踢足球 脚很像快断成两半一样 今早又去踢室内足球 哈哈哈哈哈哈哈 现在像个死人一样动也不动 不过也好啦 嘻嘻 :)

第一次看着你 就为你心动
聪明的我 怎能让你走
只希望给你多一点
要你开心多一点
给你幸福每一天
给你幸福到永远

让我保护你
让我照顾你
说你害怕 因为受过伤
不需要害怕 因为我不是他

我 爱 你 ♥

放弃 温暖 换来了 勇气

有些人很理智 但在爱情里 他们不过是一群盲目的乌合之众 他们让自己去逃避 去闪躲那些在爱情里必定发生的事情 他们就是不愿意去面对那些伤心事 因为那真的是太伤人了 伤心可以透过很多方式释放出来 眼泪 呐喊 发疯 生气 哭 折磨自己 然而这些都是一些不好的事情 我告诉你们一个方法 那就是让自己不去稀罕这一切 你要这样对我 为何我要为你掉我珍贵的眼泪?

我 放弃了 孤单和寂寞

我 换来了 开心和幸福

寂寞 , 了解

我是一个常常把笑挂在嘴角间的男孩 我常说笑话 开玩笑 有时还开真的很过分的笑话 朋友都说我是一个开心果 只要我在 我一定会把场面搞热 我从来不让安静出现在我面前

但是

表面上的我总是那么的热情 那么的开心 我从来不让寂寞追上我 我真的真的很害怕寂寞和孤单

我试过去体会那种没有人的生活 就是不和别人说话 不去理会 终结来说就是一个人的去做每一样事情 那种生活对我来说 根本就是精神上的折磨 我从那一天开始 就告诉我自己 我不能让自己有一秒的不开心 我要身边的人开心 只要人家开心 我就会开心 可能你觉得很白痴罢 不过对我来说 要开心不是一件很简单的事情 而我就在做着一间不简单的事情

过去而沉静的我是一个没有什么人会去理会的 那时的我 没有什么烦恼 没有什么顾虑 然而 生活上的改变也改变了我的生活 我的性格 我真得很想感谢几个人 也许他们只是我生命中的过客 不过他们带给我一个不一样的成长 谢谢你们 真的 谢谢

至少还有你

我怕来不及 我要抱着你
直到感觉你的皱纹 有了岁月的痕迹
直到肯定你是真的 直到失去力气
为了你 我愿意
动也不能动 也要看着你
直到感觉你的发线 有了白雪的痕迹
直到视线变得模糊 直到不能呼吸
让我们形影不离
如果全世界我也可以放弃
至少还有你 值得我去珍惜
而你在这里 就是生命的奇迹
也许 全世界我也可以忘记
就是不愿意 失去你的消息
你掌心的痣 我总记得在那里
我们好不容易 我们身不由己
我怕时间太快 不够将你看仔细
我怕时间太慢日夜担心失去你
恨不得一夜之间白头 永不分离

Leaving.

The day is cold , it's raining and you walked away.

I knew that, the one I love , lost eternally.

Defoliation slept on the lake.

You trying to let go but you just can't afford to, tears is hanging in the wind.

You can't see it.

You try to pretend but you show more faith than pretend.

I can't lost your smile in this way

There is something waiting for us, but you and me can't find it.

I hope we can change our character.

Hugs, don't care it is a little single second or eternally.

Regards,
Mr.pineapple

Just a friend?

To : Mrs. Pineapple.


This few weeks we become closer and closer ,

The feeling come stronger and stronger ,

The relationship come closer and closer,

Soon we both become lover :D



Regards,
Mr.Pineapple

I hate myself , 我恨我自己

First of all, I need to apologise to everyone who my mouth and my words offended you before.

首先, 我要向所有人至上我最诚恳的道歉 假如我的言语上得罪了你 我在此跟你说对不起

As I know, I find out that a lot people dislike me. I can't constraint their HATES on me, that's what my personality made all these out. I'm very sorry, I'm very very very sorry. I know my mouth is cruel and malicious, I'm very sure that I've displease everyone ever and before. I'm not hoping for your forgiveness because you'll never meet me again.

据我所知, 我知道很多人不喜欢我, 我不可以约束他们, 因为这些都是我的人格自找的, 我真的真的很抱歉, 对不起. 我知道我的言语恶毒及残忍的 我非常确定我得罪了很多人. 我不会希望得到你的饶恕， 因为我们不会再见面了， 你也再也不会听到我这可恶的声音.

In the deep moon night, I can't even close me eyes. The image of I attacked people is in my mind. I knew it might bring fun for myself or someone, but I know someone is definitely hurted. Another one of my personality,"霸道" Overbearing. I'm always that high-handed. I knew this is really annoying and A VERY BIG SORRY to everyone.

在深夜里, 我根本不可以把眼睛闭上, 脑里全是一些我在用言语攻击别人的画面, 我知道会为自己带来欢乐, 但有一个人一定会受到心灵上的创伤. 我的另外一个人格, 霸道, 我知道那是很反感的, 我真的很抱歉.
You'll never meet me again, You'll never hear my malicious voice again, You'll never be annoyed anymore by my personality, I'm sorry.

你不会再见到我了, 你不会再听到我那"约束">的声音, 你不会再对我的人格产生反感.


对不起.


Good bye, my friends.
永别了, 朋友们.

Saving all my love for you

A few stolen moments is all that we share
You've got your family, and they need you there
Though I've tried to resist, being last on your list
But no other woman's gonna do
So I'm saving all my love for you
It's not very easy, living all alone
My friends try and tell me, find a man of my own
But each time I try, I just break down and cry
Cause I'd rather be home feeling blue
So I'm saving all my love for you
You used to tell me we'd run away together
Love gives you the right to be free
You said be patient, just wait a little longer
But that's just an old fantasy
I've got to get ready, just a few minutes more
Gonna get that old feeling when you walk through that door
For tonight is the night, for feeling alright
We'll be making love the whole night through
So I'm saving all my love
Yes I'm saving all my love
Yes I'm saving all my love for you
No other man, is gonna love you more
Cause tonight is the night,

Undang test !

Early in the morning, woke up by the stupid gasby ringtone. Afterawhile i only noticed today got undang test OMG. quickly go and wash up then went to the MYEG for the test.

I answered all the questions in 9 minutes. When the moment I click ya, my heart almost pop out -.- . then i see see see, at first i thought i got 42/50, then after I see properly, only I know I got 50/50 LOL.




Result. 50/50 in 9 minutes

Happy Birthday Joey

Always the best.


Old friends.

Went to jusco with them. Watched Clash of the titans, quite nice and i love the Zeus's armor LOL. After that went to serdang '' HOI TONG'' steambot buffet for the dinner. Everyone ate a lot of food and back with a big big stomach O_O.


Happy birthday Dai sou aka joey. Hope you dont be too noob la ahahahahhaahah

Prelude.

Hello, Everyone. I'm back! The blog is woke up again! hahahahahahha.

Its been already 5months i never update my blog already. I think its time to revive it because I gonna share something new and some experience I got in my national service.

2nd Jan 2010 - The 1st day I reach Kem Teluk Sari Endau , somewhere in Johor. This place seem very strang
e to me. I dont know everyone because I'm the only one who come from KL. However, I can only survive till the end of this. Sigh.

Everything is in progress and under maintainence ^^

11th March 2010 - I already finished my national service. The last day i been in Kem Teluk Sari Endau. This place seem very familiar to me. I know everyone now and I'm not willing to leave them. It's a fact, we still have to leave each other and getting on different way and a better future. I hope everyone will do all the best for a better tomorrow!



Pieces of memory.